How to make love to the same spouse for the rest of your life

July 27, 2013 by Funmi Akingbade

   

Funmi Akingbade
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A desired marriage is not complete without adequate plan for a better and fulfilled sex life. Sex remains a potent tool to forge lasting relationships among couples and a good sex life, no doubt, will certainly help prepare couples to face challenges. For couples whose sex life has taken a dip, they can still make love for the rest of their life and still love it. The major tool is rediscovering opportunities to revive the magic that once kept your hearts fluttering with joy. The funny update is that great sex is still attainable.

Think of how you can make sex hot; don’t undermine the fact that the hotter the passion, the better the sex. There are different ways to tell your partner how much you enjoy sleeping with him or her. Sometimes, the way you talk about sex or demand for it; the way you respond to your partner’s advances or the things you do to your body in order to look good, could go a long way into keeping the passion in your relationship hot and sizzling. When there is a mutual desire to jump into each other’s arms, couple would always be willing to go the extra mile to have best of sex. Flirting with your spouse will spice up your sex life. If you are the wife, you should form a habit of flirting with your husband at all the time. When you put on your alluring airs, you are indirectly telling your husband that you are always interested in his sexual prowess; men often react positively to this kind of attitude.

The looks you give your spouse speaks volumes and seductive glances generate sexual energy. Seductive attire, dressing to kill get your husband fired up sexually, even though he may pretend initially not to notice. Any woman that is serious about making love to the same man for the rest of her life and still love it ought to keep a sexy kit handy and make sure that all the items are available anytime, anywhere and at strategic points in the car, kitchen, and bedsides.

Men are habitually under sexual pressure; it does not matter whether you are newlywed, nursing mother, or menopausal bride. What matters is that you must treat the nuptial bed like a bona fide business or make it one. You can even be a little mysterious sexually. The fact is that if a wife arouses her husband’s curiosity, it is guaranteed that the man will always be back against all odds. Statistically, an average man gets bored easily sexually. Voice your sexual fantasy and experiment it on him.

Husbands, turn your wife into your idea sex girl. Men have a catalogue of sexual imaginations and the best way to relive these scenarios is to share it with their wives.  Ask your wife of the possibilities of experimentation with good dividend. Experts say all living beings have sexual fantasies, in which an individual imagines himself enjoying erotic moments with his or her spouse in strange places at strange times with strange posture and positions. Sharing sexual fantasies with your partner is a way of heightening and intensifying erotic potential by showing your spouse possibilities that he or she has never considered before. In turn, this will open the door to a lifetime of sexual ecstasy.

Most times, spouses underestimate how powerful they become if they can fulfil their partner’s unrequited fantasy. The point is that if your partner has been dreaming about something all of his/her life and then you help make it a reality for him, the chances are that you will definitely inspire him to display incredible loyalty and devotion to you. The advantage of these fantasies is that they give room to assertiveness, unpredictability and an impulsiveness that creates fun, excitement and expectations; which in turn eliminates boredom. Before you know it, you are actually making love to the same spouse and loving it.

Make giving your spouse great sex a priority. This is like pledging your eternal allegiance to him or her. Although most men dislike longish foreplay,  when  you are aware of the fact that control is essential during lovemaking and that most women think wonderful sex should be full of slow foreplay, you just got yourself a sex life partner. Remember that the best sex lasts between thirteen and twenty five minutes. According to a study published in a journal, medical researchers who surveyed people bedroom preferences says two to five  minutes is too short,  seven to twenty  minutes is acceptable and 30 minutes and above may be unattainable by some.