We've all struggled with our
motivation to go to work from time to time – the alarm goes off and we
go, “Ugh, not again!” In fact, until we've had our coffee, it’s as if
the human race hasn't evolved at all. (I don’t think I end up saying
coherent syllables until 10 a.m.) But what if it’s more than that? What
if that heavy sense of dread about work follows you everywhere you go?
Does that mean it’s time to leave your job?
You’d think a job
that makes us feel awful would be easy to leave, but for many of us it’s
not the case. Either we feel it’s impossible to find something better,
or we worry that if we leave, we’ll end up in a worse position than
we’re in now. Here’s what I’ve learned: no job is ever worth your
health. In fact, nothing is! Yet our need for financial survival
constantly gets the best of us. It’s time to start doing what it takes
to get a grip on your well-being.
Here are 11 signs you should leave your job:
1. You dread going to work in the morning.
If
when your alarm goes off you feel compelled to start sobbing into your
pillow, it’s seriously time to rethink your job status. Dig deep and
look at what’s really bothering you: Is it a specific chunk of tasks you
have to accomplish? Is it not what you work on, but who you work with?
Or are you just bored by the monotony? Getting specific about your dread
will help you figure out what to do – whether it be discussing new
opportunities with your boss, or deciding to leave your job entirely for
opportunities elsewhere.
2. You have absolutely no interest in the work you’re doing.
There’s
nothing more draining than a job that has nothing to do with your
ultimate goals or personal interests. Regardless of what you’re being
paid, you’ll never fully enjoy your life or reach your full potential if
you’re saddled with so much apathy – it will eventually spill into
other areas of your life and dim those as well.
3. Your job is so routine, it’s become boring.
If
your workday has become so monotonous you’re constantly fighting
boredom, it’s time to seriously consider moving on. If you’ve talked to
your boss and either there’s no follow-through on the promise of change
or the changes aren’t shifting how you feel, then it’s a good indicator
it’s time to leave your job.
4. You feel stuck.
If
you feel like you've learned all there is to learn in your job or
moving up the ladder has not fulfilled you in any way, bust out the want
ads.
5. You’re concerned about the financial stability of your company.
Even though after rounds of lay-offs you’re still standing, you are now left with a permanent feeling of uneasiness.
6. You’re not “you” anymore.
You've lost your “spark.” Instead of looking forward to your day, your only focus is surviving it.
7. You’re noticing physical changes because of the stress.
Where
and how we work impacts our body. If you’re losing or gaining weight,
experiencing excruciating body pain, anxiety attacks or consistent
feelings of melancholy, it’s time to reflect and consider other options.
8. Your boss needs an exorcism.
If
your boss leaves you in a permanent state of panic – so much so that
you’re losing sleep and experiencing constant feelings of inadequacy –
run! Run away screaming! Especially if they've been approached about
these issues before and are in complete denial.
9. You've entered a spiral of negativity.
If
you've lost the will to care and are putting zero effort into not just
your work, but how you dress, act, or complete the smallest of tasks,
there’s no doubt it’s time for a change.
10. You have no time for yourself.
If
you’re working so many late nights you don’t feel like a person
anymore, leave your job and find one that allows you to have time for
yourself. What’s the point of making a living if you don’t have time to
actually live?
11. You feel like an outcast.
If
you don’t fit in with how your company operates, or don’t believe in
what you’re doing and it makes you uncomfortable, it’s time to move on.
I’m not naive – I know leaving your job is one of the hardest decisions
to make, never mind actions to take, but your health and well-being
depend on it.
You know what’s scarier than leaving your job?
Staying. But of course, most of us would stay (using the E GO BETTER
statement to console ourselves) because of the state and insecurities of
Niger-Area. At least, we are the "Happiest people on earth".
Is it time to leave your job? What signs would you add to this list?
CULLED FROM: http://www.lifehack.org/articles/work/11-signs-that-you-should-leave-your-job.html?utm_source=Lifehack&
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