1. Make time for family and friends. This is especially important for those who don’t spend much time with their loved ones during the week.
2. Exercise. Everyone
needs to do it, and if you can’t work out 4 to 5 days during the
workweek, you need to be active on weekends to make up for some of that
time, Vanderkam says. It’s the perfect opportunity to clear your mind
and create fresh ideas.
“I
know an owner of a PR firm who takes walks in the park with his dog to
spark ideas about how to pitch a new client, or what angle to take with
the press for a story,” Kurow says.
Cohen suggests spin classes and outdoor
cycling in the warmer months. “Both are energizing and can be organized
among people with shared interests. For example, it is not uncommon for
hedge fund folks and Wall Street professionals to ride together on
weekends. It is a great way to establish and cultivate relationships
based on membership in this elite professional community.”
3. Pursue a passion.
“There’s a creative director of a greeting card company who went back
to school to pursue an MFA because of her love of art,” Kurow says.
“Pursuing this passion turned into a love of poetry that she now writes
on weekends.”
“Successful people make time for what is
important or fun,” Egan adds. “They make space for activities that add
to their life balance.”
4. Vacation. Getting away for the weekend provides a great respite from the grind of an intense week at work, Cohen says.
5. Disconnect. The most
successful people avoid e-mail for a period of time, Vanderkam says.
“I’m not saying the whole weekend, but even just a walk without the
phone can feel liberating. I advocate taking a ‘tech Sabbath.’ If you
don’t have a specific religious obligation of no-work time, taking
Saturday night to mid-day Sunday off is a nice, ecumenical time that
works for many people.”
6. Volunteer. “I know a
commercial real estate broker who volunteers to help with cook-off
events whose proceeds are donated to the Food Bank,” Kurow says. “The
volunteer work provides a balance to the heavy analytical work she does
all week and fulfills her need to be creative — she designs the
promotional material for the non-profit.”
Cohen says a lot of successful people
participate in fundraising events. “This is a great way to network and
to meet others with similar interests,” he says. “The visibility also
helps in branding a successful person as philanthropic.”
7. Avoid chores. Every
weekend has a few have-to-dos, but you want these to take the minimum
amount of time possible, Vanderkam explains. Create a small window for
chores and errands, and then banish them from your mind the rest of the
time.
8. Plan. “Planning makes
people more effective, and doing it before the week starts means you
can hit Monday ready to go, and means you’ll give clear directions to
the people who work for you, so they will be ready to go, too,”
Vanderkam says.
Trunk agrees. She says successful people
plan their month and year because “if you get stuck on short-term lists
you don’t get anything big accomplished.”
9. Socialize. “Humans
are social creatures, and studies of people’s experienced happiness
through the day finds that socializing ranks right up there, not too far
down below sex,” Vanderkam says.
Go out with friends and family, or get involved in the local community.
“It has been demonstrated that successful
people find great satisfaction in giving back,” Cohen says. “Board
membership, for example, also offers access to other successful folks.”
10. Gardening/crafts/games/sports/cooking/cultural activities. This is especially important for those cooped up in an office all week.
“For the pure joy, some folks find great satisfaction in creating beautiful gardens,” Cohen says.
Kurow knows an attorney who uses her
weekends to garden and do mosaics and tile work to satisfy her creative
side. “Filling her life this way enables her to be refreshed on Monday
and ready to tackle the litigation and trial prep work. Artwork for her
is fulfilling in a way that feeds her soul and her need to connect with
her spiritual side.”
Bridge lessons and groups can also
sharpen the mind and often create relationships among highly competitive
smart professionals, Cohen says. “I once saw a printout of a bridge
club’s membership list; its members were a who’s who of Wall Street.”
Theatre, opera and sporting events can also enrich one’s spirit, he adds.
11. Network. “Networking
isn’t an event for a successful person, it’s a lifestyle,” Trunk says.
Wherever they go and whatever they do, they manage to connect with new
people.
12. Reflect. Egan
says truly successful people make time on weekends to appreciate what
they have and reflect on their happiness and accomplishments. As Rascoff
said, “weekends are a great chance to reflect and be more introspective
about bigger issues.”
13. Meditate. Classes
and private instruction offer a bespoke approach to insight and peace of
mind, Cohen says. “How better to equip yourself for success in this
very tough world?”
14. Recharge. We
live in a competitive world, Vanderkam says. “Peak performance requires
managing downtime, too–with the goal of really recharging your
batteries.” That’s how the most successful people get so much done.
Successful people know that time is too precious to be totally
leisurely about leisure, Vanderkam concludes. “You’re not going to waste
that time by failing to think about what you’d like to do with it, and
thus losing the weekend to TV, puttering, inefficient e-mail checking,
and chores. If you don’t have a busy workweek, your weekend doesn’t
matter so much. But if you’re going from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. every day, it
certainly does.”
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