The road to success is not smooth. Making something out of yourself in
our high rising society can be intimidating. With all of the stress that
the world puts on becoming successful, we can often get discouraged.
Keeping a positive mind will set you down the right track to obtain the
goals you aspire to achieve. Keeping these 10 thoughts in your mind
daily will simultaneously intertwine subtle excitement for the future
into your daily life and add confidence into to your future.
10. Greatness does not happen overnight
As
a society that has grown well-acquainted to the demand for quick
access, we often forget that a career is not something that we can
receive at a drive-thru. Of course it is frustrating to desire something
so badly and feel as if it will take years to obtain it. But, that long
wait provides a perfect amount of time for us to exercise our love for
what we are looking to achieve. If you continue to strive for the same
goal, no matter how long it takes, then you are truly dedicated to what
it is that you want. Many give up due to the strenuous working process
day after day, but if you keep that light at the end of the tunnel in
your vision, you will feel even more satisfied when you reach it.
“Don’t
let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in
the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as
well put that passing time to the best possible use.”
-Earl Nightingale
9. Rejection is inevitable, but it can not stop you from what you want
Human
beings fall victim to the fear of rejection. Every day, millions of
people hesitantly step into the world of business, fashion, medicine,
etc. These hopefuls ironically fear what can go wrong rather than what
can go right. While the emptiness that rejection leaves us with is like a
gash to the heart, it is also a wake-up call. Being turned down from
one company does not mean you are not suitable for the job. Being turned
away from your top choice of college does not mean you do not have
potential or brains. It is up to YOU to take that rejection, toss it to
the side, pick yourself up, and go out and try again. Look at it as a
bump in the road rather than a dead end.
Let rejection build you
up, not negatively dictate your future. Afterall, Walt Disney was fired
from a newspaper for “lacking creativity.”
8. You have far more to offer the world than you think
We
are all on this earth for a reason. Sometimes it takes a few ups and
downs to find out that reason. It takes trial and error to realize what
you can accomplish. Every one of us has the potential to change the
world. We all have something within us that was set there at a young age
and is waiting to be released. Whether it be a component of our
personality that can turn the world into a kinder place, a simple
thought that can create extraordinary products, or the drive for success
that can form a multi-million dollar company, we all possess a skill.
Remind yourself that you have a purpose in life and the world is waiting
for you to share it.
7. Opportunists set the grounds for society
Those
who go out there and make the best of what life has to offer are the
happiest. You may get the feeling that there will be no more job
openings or internships in your field by the time you are eligible for
them. Right? Wrong. We live in a prosperous world that grows with every
passing minute. There will always be new opportunities out there. If you
mold yourself into one of these kind of people, you will eventually and
surely receive what it is you are looking for. Opportunities are
everywhere. Seek and you shall find.
6. Risks aren’t always bad
Taking
your confidence and turning it I to risk taking is an excellent
attribute. Risks are scary to most, for it takes one out of their
comfort zone. This being said, stepping out of your comfort zone is a
step in the right direction. Life begins when you remove yourself from
what you’re used to. Tell yourself that it’s okay to enter new
territories! Travel. Take chances. Do something that you’re scared of.
Set up a job interview with a prestigious company. Put yourself out
there without fear.
5. Pick one present you want to reward yourself with when you reach a milestone
The
road to your future doesn’t have to be strictly stiff business. Giving
yourself leeway for pleasure will help you stay on track. Set smaller
goals on the road to your large goal. When you land an internship, treat
yourself to a nice pair of shoes. When you get a raise, reward yourself
with that watch you’ve always wanted. Praising yourself for your
accomplishments will help you stay focused to keep working as hard as
you can. Remember that you are a human and humans need self-fulfillment
to progress.
4. Support System
If you’re lucky
enough to have a single person that believes in all that you are, you’re
lucky enough. Not every successful person was fortunate enough to have a
handful of people that supported them along every failure and triumph.
If you have a close knit group of people you can rely on to boost you up
when you’ve reached your lowest, you should thank them often. You may
feel alone along the road to success, but remember those that are
rooting for you. You can find this support in parents, relatives,
friends, teachers, etc. Don’t take them for granted. They are the ones
who will be by your side when you start from the bottom and when you
reach the top.
3. You are already halfway to your goal just by dreaming of it- now get out and do it!
There
are millions of people that lack any ambition. Those that do not strive
for any sort of success are the ones who will not make it nearly as far
in life as you will. By experiencing failures and rejection, you are
steps ahead of those who don’t even try. Remind yourself that you are
already closer to reaching your dreams and goals just by having the
courage to dream at all!
2. Remove “can’t” from your vocabulary. Permanently.
It
is one of the most cliché sayings but holds much truth. When you
restrict yourself from something because you think that you “can’t” do
it, you are only withholding great potential from the matter. You CAN do
it. We all are capable of greatness. Recite “I CAN do this” to yourself
5 times when in doubt.
1. You are capable of anything and everything
When
you get up in the morning, don’t rush to get a cup of coffee. Rather
look in the mirror and remind yourself that today is another day to set
forth towards your goals. You have the ability and resources you need.
Release any negative thoughts and remember that you are a strong person
who can satisfy your innermost desires as soon as you make the first
step to do so. You have strength, courage, wisdom, and individually
thrust upon you. Make it count.
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