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Tuesday, 26 November 2013

Wole Soyinka: Things You Didn’t Know About Him

Wole Soyinka is well known throughout Nigeria and the rest of the world as a brilliant playwright, poet and political activist. With more than 50 pieces of work, his writing includes novels, memoirs and a wide variety of essays. He is the first person in Africa to win the Nobel Prize in literature, and is respected for his willingness to speak out against repression and corruption. But beyond all of that, there are still many things you may not know about Wole Soyinka.

Though his father was an Anglican minister, Wole was an atheist

Wole’s father, Samuel Ayodele Soyinka, (whom he called S.A. or “Essay”) was an Anglican minister and headmaster of St. Peters School in Abẹokuta. His mother, Grace Eniola Soyinka, owned a market shop, was active in the women’s movement in her community and also was a practicing Anglican. Wole, on the other hand, was an atheist. His beliefs contributed greatly to his writing.

He’s got some pretty influential family members

Wole’s mother, Grace, was a member of the Ransome-Kuti family, known for its contributions to Nigerian art, religion, education, medicine and politics. His cousins include activists Beko Ransome-Kuti and Yemisi Ransome-Kuti, musician Fela Kuti, and Health Minister Olikoye Ransome-Kuti.

He helped found the first confraternity in Nigeria

While pursuing a degree in English literature, Greek, and Western history at University College in Ibadan, Wole helped found the Pyrates Confraternity with six others. It was built as an anti-corruption and justice-seeking student organization, themes that would play into much of his later work.

He’s been arrested multiple times

Before he was famously arrested during the civil war in Nigeria, he was imprisoned in 1964 after being accused of making political radio broadcasts disputing published election results.

Despite imprisonment, Soyinka was wildly productive, writing and producing several plays

Some of Wole’s most famous works were written during his 22-month imprisonment. He smuggled in materials such as books, pens and paper. Much of his work at this time, unsurprisingly, was focused on criticizing the Nigerian government that was restricting his freedom.

Wole went into voluntary exile amid concerns over the political situation in Nigeria

After resigning from his professorial duties at the University of Ibadan in April 1971, he spent five years of voluntary exile in Europe. During this time, he worked as the editor of “Transition,” Nigeria’s leading intellectual journal.

He has been married three times and divorced twice

He has been married to his third and current wife, Adefolake Soyinka, since 1989 and has three children with her (he also has children by his other wives). Adefolake is a former student of Wole’s.

He has never been afraid to criticize other nations or his own

Wole is well known for making contentious statements against other nations, including European nations where he lived in exile. It demonstrates his commitment to exposing injustice regardless of the location, and his willingness to make unpopular moves.

In Nigeria, he is considered a political activist first and a playwright second

Despite his amazing body of work, Wole’s long history of criticizing the Nigerian government and taking action against corruption are among his greatest legacies. He remains an influence on writers and activists in Nigeria and across the world.

He has been named Commander of the Federal Republic of Nigeria

This is a Nigerian honor first established in 1964 people who served and benefited Nigeria. Soyinka was awarded in 1986, the same year he won the Nobel Prize for Literature.

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Longest Married Couple Celebrates 81st Anniversary

by infonubia(m):

Meet John and Ann Betar. They are celebrating their 81st wedding anniversary today! They are the longest married couple in America and I would imagine that not a lot of couples around the world can beat their record.

Their advice on how they have stayed together for so long - just roll with the punches.

“If you think a little bit about what you’re doing, and if it’s wrong… we straighten it out, and if not we just try to go along with it,” said Ann Betar, 97, who is married to 101-year-old John Betar.

The Betars eloped on Nov. 25, 1932, after leaving to avoid Ann’s father’s plans to have her marry a man 20 years her senior. Ann was 17 and John was 21 at the time.

Now eight decades later, the couple lives in Fairfield, Connecticut, and has five children, 14 grandchildren and 16 great-grandchildren.

"Well, marriage isn't a lovey-dovey thing for 80 years. You learn to accept one another's ways of life, agreements, disagreements -- disagreements on our children, preparation on bringing up your kids,” Ann Betar said. “That was the main interest… was your children.”

Wow....this is a testimony to the fact that marriage works. You can make your marriage work. No one is perfect. It's those beautiful imperfections that make life interesting and worth living.

Congratulations to the Betars!

Monday, 25 November 2013

Dos And Don’ts Of Relationships 3

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Published on November 22, 2013 by   We have come a really long way in considering what kind of relationships we should offer to our loved ones. Indeed it’s like a ‘world without end’ because you cannot possibly touch on all angles of need in one go.
Apart from the basic fact that people are different and yearn for specific attention; society, socialisation, education, globalisation and other factors have also come a long way to condition and influence the expectations of people over time.
Thus a man who grew up in a traditional home where the father is the head only and ignores domestic chores  may exude a different character after much interaction with other men who feel the home belong to both man and woman and should be handled that way.
Men who participate fully in home affairs are not only respected by their wives but the children also admire their involvement in their daily lives. Providing money is good and as a matter of fact, everyone needs financial provision to sustain the family but the joy of being able to fix dinner or pick up after the children can be amazing. This might not fit every family setting but it’ll be nice to do your best for all.
Women who are obsessed with the glamour of modern education may on their own terms want to take things to  the extreme by trying to define equality and responsibility. Yes there’s equality but there is no point singing it daily to your spouse. A reasonable man should know how to treat the one he loves. Slavery or negligence should not even be mentioned where two hearts are closely knitted. There might be occasions of slips in expectations and performance but love holds it out for careful regular examination to be conducted by each party.
External influences on relationships can spiral to unimaginable limits but a concerned partner will do much to make sure things work between them. Behaviours and habits you borrow from others should benefit your union instead of destroying what you should be protecting.  A little here and there of what has worked for others should also be imported with care and close observation: just in case it turns out not to be fruitful for you.
On the other hand, there should be a place of open discuss: share your thoughts and values and reach a compromise what exactly is the picture you are painting. Your home is unique and should not necessarily be like your neighbours’ or the other down the road.
•Be creative: Creativity in relationship is what really makes the difference in so many areas. This could span from bedroom to kitchen, socials to spirituality, recreation to production, etc. Being creative basically suggest being either original or copying smartly. You may chose to play around with a certain food you’ve been used to in a particular way: turn it around with a different touch and see what comes out of it. Same goes for other areas and I need not say that the downside of creativity is surprises. Sometimes you get it right but at other times, you are so embarrassed and cannot tell the story to a third party. But whichever way it comes find it in your heart to have fun; bring laughter into it.
•Learn about failure and success: The earlier you learn about failure and success as mere events the better your life will be. If you think your spouse is failing today, deal with the circumstance but take your love seriously. You cannot label him/her to be a failure; things change in life and if the same person succeeds tomorrow and makes it ‘big time’, where would you hide your shame? This is why people despise their spouses, walk away from the relationship but later beg to return when the situation looks favourable- should the one you love be treated this way?
•Add value: I’m not ashamed to say that a relationship that has not added any value to your life is difficult to cope with. Joining your intelligence, finance, strength, exposure, etc with someone else is supposed to make you better. The more you contribute to your spouse’s success, the stronger your bond will be. Some people might be quick to react here but what I mean is be determined to support your partner and see them become the very best of what is possible.
•Avoid Competition: Why should there be competition when you are supposed to work together as one? Destinies are not the same and some people are bound to be more productive than others either by virtue of their personality or opportunities life has offered them. If you find yourself in a place where your partner is financially stronger, be wise enough to position yourself and be part of that success instead of rivalry.
•Complement each other: You are better appreciated in places where you fill in the gap and do what others could not do. The law of complementing states that you concentrate at what you know how to do best which the others might not be and they in turn cover your weaknesses where and when necessary- what a joy! If you cover your spouse’s back they would appreciate you deeply.
•Communicate clearly and sincerely: Talking cannot be replaced by any other thing except you are not capable of doing so. Say what you mean and mean what you say in simple clear terms without confusing or intending to mislead the other. Ambiguity can sometimes be annoying; don’t play on his/her emotions.
•Be guided by love: I’m convinced this is the strongest of them all. Let all your actions and reactions be determined by the love you have for each other. Where there is love, you’ll be motivated to protect the interest of the other but where there is no love; anything evil can happen and I know you mean well for him/her. Love will make you do things that you’ll ordinarily not do and issues of accommodating, faithfulness, kindness, patience, humility, etc can easily dissolve into the fabrics of what you feel for each other. Have fun…………

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Hey Aspiring Designers & Models, This is for You! You’re Invited for Fashion Fusion 2013 | Wednesday 18th December 2013

Fashion Fusion 2013 - BellaNaija - November 2013Are you ready for a fashion fusion?
Tagged #FashionFusion2013, this youth empowerment initiative has been created to target and empower aspiring young designers who have found their passion for fashion and ventured into the fashion industry. The event will be organised to showcase young Nigerian designers, models with side attractions like performances and comedy skits.
Firstly, in a screening process, the models and designers will pass through a preliminary stage from which only 15 outstanding designers & models will be chosen to showcase their creativity at the event. The designer with the best showcase will be determined by a panel of judges that will include Ejiro Amos Tafiri, Zizi Cardow, Adebayo Oke-Lawal, Uche Nnaji, Lanre DaSilva Ajayi and more. The model with the best catwalk will also be decided.
The best in these 2 categories  will win a cash prize of N250,000 and N50,000 respectively among other benefits.
What an opportunity! Are you interested? Then download your form here: PDF Format | Word Doc Format
If you are interested in being a part of this project, whether as a sponsor, partner or participant, please contact:
Ebere C. Ekeledo at +2348180321046 | Email thefashionfusion13@gmail.com.
Date: Wednesday 18th December 2013
Venue: The Oriental Hotel, 3, Maroko Road, Ikoyi, Lagos

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When you rely only on your monthly take-home pay for settling your bills and other personal or family needs, it makes it impossible for you to reach your financial goals. You will end up spending and spending with little or no savings, talk less of investing. Sometimes you even go into debt in order to meet some pressing needs.
Miriam Caldwell, personal finance specialists said t is important to stop living paycheck to paycheque so you can begin reaching your financial goals. If your employer is paying you with a prepaid debit card, it may be even more difficult to stop living from paycheque to paycheque, but you can do it, she said.
She said the biggest thing you can do is to learn to budget effectively. Anyone can write down a monthly budget. It takes just a few minutes, and there are several different approaches you can take to come up with your budget. But writing down a budget and actually budgeting are two totally different things.
When you are budgeting effectively you are tracking your spending, and stopping when you run out of money. An effective budget has all of your expenses built into to it, so you are not taken by surprise when your car registration and taxes are due or when you have to pay your insurance premiums. This is the biggest step in order to stop living from paycheque to paycheque.
Once you have established a working budget, you need to begin to cut back on your spending she said. This will free up money for you to get out of debt and to put into an emergency fund. Once you do this, and get rid of your debt, you will have money to spend each month. The challenge in the beginning is to find ways to save in nearly every category. As you get better at saving, you will be able to find even more ways to save and speed up the process.
According to her, the biggest way to stop living from paycheque to paycheque is to have money in the bank. You can do this by putting money aside each paycheque. Once you have got out of debt, you can begin building a larger emergency fund. This emergency fund is the key to stop living from paycheque to paycheque in the long-term. When you have a year’s worth of expenses in the bank, you no longer feel the same worry and pressure as you deal with life’s challenges.
Another way to stop living from paycheque to paycheque is to get out of debt. Your debt is eating up a portion of each paycheque. It can hold you back from doing the things you want to the most. You will not get out of debt if you continue to put money on your credit cards. You need to stop using your credit cards until you are completely out of debt, even if you believe the rewards are worth the credit card. This will help you to really control and monitor your spending.
Your budget will help you find the extra money you need to put towards your debt each month. Avoid taking out a car loan or other types of loans until you have paid off your debt completely. Your emergency fund can help you pay for car repairs and cover other unexpected expenses so that you no longer rely on your credit cards to get out of a tight situation.
By: HOPE MOSES-ASHIKE