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Friday, 18 January 2013

How To Be A Super-Achiever: The 10 Qualities That Matter


What do actor Alec Baldwin, game-show champion Ken Jennings and baseball icon Yogi Berra have in common?
That’s what husband-and-wife duo Camille Sweeney and Josh Gosfield set out to discover. For their upcoming book The Art of Doing: How Superachievers Do What They Do and How They Do It So Well, they interviewed 36 star performers that climbed to the tops of their various fields.
“We didn’t want to theorize about success,” says Gosfield. “We went straight to the source, finding the most amazing people in all fields and asking them, ‘How do you do what you do?’”
Interview after interview with some of the world’s most successful people—actress Laura Linney, Zappos CEO Tony Hsieh, crossword mastermind Will Shortz—they began seeing patterns emerge. No matter how diverse their goals or crafts, these super-achievers shared many of the same habits. How can you follow in their footsteps? These are the 10 qualities that will set you apart.
Dedication To A Vision
“Every great success starts with inspiration, but not every inspiration leads to success,” Gosfield says. “The most common thing we found was these people’s devotion to the day-to-day struggle.” Glossy magazine success stories often don’t show the dark moments, the daily grind or flagging energy that super-achievers endure to realize their goals. However, that dedication is essential to their success.

Intelligent Persistence
One thing successful people know: Dedication and blind persistence are two very different things. “You can work hard but not smart,” says Sweeney. “When something’s not working, you’ve got to tweak it. Some people just keep banging their heads against the wall.” Instead of doggedly using the same ineffective tactics, super-achievers pivot and try to tackle the problem from a different angle.
Star performers know they can’t achieve success on their own. Instead, they must galvanize a group of people around their idea or goal. Teamwork, or having an ecosystem of supporters, turns out to be critically vital for success. It doesn’t just include partners and coworkers. It might also mean employees, customers, investors, mentors, fans and social media followers. They quote business guru Guy Kawasaki: “First you have to create something worthy of an ecosystem. Then pick your evangelists.”
Listening And Remaining Open
“You don’t normally think of hard-charging, action-oriented leaders as being good listeners,” says Sweeney. “These people’s ability to practice the art of listening helped them learn what they needed to know about the world around them.” For example, Zappos’ Hsieh asked all his employees to share their personal values so that he could incorporate them into the company’s values and culture. Likewise, Linney says she never accepts a role unless she has read and reread the script so many times that it has opened up to her.
Stories have the ability to transport people to your world, and then they’re more likely to invest in you and your brand. Philippe Petit, famous for his high-wire walk between the Twin Towers of New York City’s World Trade Center in the 1970s, believed other wire-walkers were trying to make it look hard. “But he wanted to be a poet in the sky and seem effortless,” Sweeney says. “His narrative wasn’t in words, but it was a story he was communicating.”
Testing Ideas In The Market
“Everybody has a bias to think their own idea is brilliant,” says Gosfield. “[Achievers] roll it out in an environment that’s as close as possible to the market.” Bill Gross, serial entrepreneur and founder of Idealab, always tests before he invests. When he had an idea for an online car dealer, CarsDirect, no one was sure if people would actually buy a car from a Web site. He decided to put up a test site to see what would happen. Before they had any inventory, they’d sold four cars and had to shut down the site. On the upside, Gross then knew for a fact there was a market for the service.
Managing Emotions
“We found that managing emotions is a key element to success,” Sweeney says. “It’s so easy to be derailed by them, but these people are able to channel anger and frustration into their work.” This was an important lesson for Jessica Watson, the Australian sailor who circumnavigated the world alone at only 16 years old. While out at sea, when loneliness or negativity set in, she would acknowledge her emotions and remind herself that she could get past them. “You can’t change conditions—just the way you deal with them,” Watson said.
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10 Traits of Courageous Leaders


Courageous leaders are in high demand and short supply these days.
Rampant fear has sent many organizational cultures into a downward spiral, the tenuous state of the economy creating untold levels of anxiety. According to a 2011/2012 Kenexa report , workplace stress is at the highest levels in four years, driven in large part by fear. In these situations, people tend to keep their heads down and their mouths shut in order to survive.  This not only applies to the rank and file, but to management as well.
These are the times that call for bold, confident, courageous leadership.  As history has shown, those with the guts to step forward, take some risks and lead change during downturns will be the winners as the economy rebounds.
But it’s not easy.  Demonstrating leadership courage - whether it’s having an uncomfortable conversation, communicating when you don’t have all the answers, or making a decision to move ahead on a new project – can be scary. Yet it’s precisely the kind of behavior that fosters trust and sets a crucial example for others to follow at a time when they’d rather hunker down and wait for the storm to pass.
If you want to see more courageous action by your people, consider whether you’re modeling the 10 traits of courageous leaders:
  1. Confront reality head-on.  Ditch the rose-colored glasses and face the facts about the state of your organization and business. Only by knowing the true current state can you lead your team to a better place.
  2. Seek feedback and listen.  We all have blind spots that impact the way we interact with others.  Unfiltered 360-degree feedback is not always easy to hear, but it can breathe new life into your relationships and leadership style if you listen and act.
  3. Say what needs to be said.  Real conversations can be awkward and uncomfortable, especially if conflict is involved. Having crucial conversations helps cut through the smoke and move through issues. This also means having the courage to put your opinions on the table, even if they are unpopular.
  4. Encourage push-back.  Many leaders feel pressure to have all the answers. By encouraging constructive dissent and healthy debate, you reinforce the strength of the team and demonstrate that in the tension of diverse opinions lies a better answer.
  5. Take action on performance issues.  Confronting people issues is hard, which is why so many leaders ignore them until they become a toxic threat to the team or company’s performance. By taking swift action to reassign or exit underperforming employees, you are helping yourself, the team and organization.
  6. Communicate openly and frequently.   Keep the lines of communication open, even when you don’t know all the answers.  Courageous leaders refuse to hide behind jargon and wiggle-words – they use straight-talk and are not afraid to say “I don’t know.”  They also share information instead of hoarding it.
  7. Lead change.  In fear-based environments, it’s all about protecting the status quo. Envision a better way, a better solution, a better product – and approach it with determination and an open mind, knowing that it will be messy and that a mid-course correction may be necessary. Remember that you need to bring people along the change process for them to truly engage.
  8. Make decisions and move forward.  Especially in environments of fear and intense change, it feels unsafe to commit to a decision and move ahead. Avoid the crutch of ‘analysis paralysis’ and make the decision.  Forward movement is always better than being stuck in place.
  9. Give credit to others.  Let go of the need for praise and instead give the credit to those around you.  At first it feels scary – will I be rendered irrelevant or unnecessary if my people are doing all the good stuff? Remember that a good leader takes more than their fair share of the blame and less than their fair share of the credit.
  10. Hold people (and yourself) accountable.  Expect people to perform and deliver on their commitments, and have courage to call them out when they don’t follow through.  Remember that accountability begins with you – holding yourself responsible for modeling the behaviors you expect of others.
Susan Tardanico is CEO of the Authentic Leadership Alliance and Executive in Residence at the Center for Creative Leadership.  Follow her on Twitter @Susantardanico.

Monday, 14 January 2013

The 10 Commandments For Women


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1. Don’t be in a hurry to move out of your parents house.
2. Don’t wait for a man before you start living. You can live a fulfilled life as a single woman.
3. Stay away from alcohol. It has killed others and you are not special.
4. Don’t entertain a wrong number call, especially at night. Its not the right way to find a lover.
5. Develop a healthy eating habit. Always take breakfast and avoid sweets.
6. Dress well: impression count. People will judge you by the way you dress even before they talk to you.
7. Don’t use sex as proof of love. Sex is no proof of love, he’ll leave you after the sex.
8. Don’t marry for the money, else you’ll become one of his possessions.
9. Add value to yourself – get a career. Don’t be fooled that a man will solve all your problems.
10. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone beautiful better more matured and competent than you..
Culled From NAIJNEWS

Organise your finances

 

Nimi Akinkugbe
Organising your finances can be a real chore. Every month, you receive several bills, statements, and other financial documents, which can be quite overwhelming. Unpaid bills and statements from multiple bank accounts lying un-opened are a sure sign that you are losing control of your financial life. Perhaps you regularly miss payment deadlines and end up having to pay penalty fees or punitive interest because you just can’t keep up with all your financial matters. You could be putting your financial wellbeing at risk.
Just as you would attempt to de-clutter your home by throwing out all the things you no longer need, your finances need an overhaul from time to time. Ask yourself these questions; is your home insured? When is your health insurance policy due for renewal? What kind of policy do you have? When is your next rent due? Is the landlord willing to renew at the old rate?
Most of us badly need to go through this exercise, so this January, let us together go through all our financial matters and try to create some order. This might seem like a daunting task; where do you start, with envelopes, drawers, and cupboards full to the brim and overflowing with documents that you haven’t looked at for years. If you are disorganised, it will be difficult to make progress. If you put your mind to it and devote some time to this task, you will make huge strides in sorting things out.
What tools do you need?
To get started you need to put a few things in place; your purchase list could include the following items; files and folders, A4 envelopes, a letter opener, stapler, a perforator, markers, biros and pencils, address labels, a calculator, a shredder and a small safe.
Create a simple filing system
To put your documents in order you need to carefully create a system that helps you to keep track of all the paperwork; a simple filing system is one way as there is a lot of important financial information that needs to be organised and maintained, some of it in physical form for a period of time. The categories usually include the following documents; bank statements, retirement account, other investment statements, brokerage and mutual fund statements, portfolio reports, insurance policies including those for your home, life, medical and health insurance, title documents for your home and your car, mortgage documents, tax returns, monthly bills, salary pay slips, warranties, title documents for home, car, receipts for significant items and so on.
Sensitive documents
We all have some particularly important personal documents such as a passport, birth certificates, title documents, stock certificates, educational certificates or your marriage license; scan or photocopy these documents for your household files. Ideally, the original documents should be stored in a sturdy fireproof filing cabinet or a small fireproof safe. List all the contents and make copies to be kept with your lawyer or other reliable family member or friend. It is important to protect these from the risk of fire, flood or other disasters. You don’t need to go overboard in trying to create Fort Knox at home, but at the same time you shouldn’t have things lying around in cardboard boxes at the bottom of your wardrobe for an unscrupulous house keeper to rifle through whilst you are at work.
Regular maintenance
Setting up a basic filing system is one thing, but maintaining it is another. Even if you are too busy to go over your money matters once a week, do try to revisit this most important aspect of your life periodically. Whenever you receive a bank statement, take a moment to check it for errors before you put away in the correctly labelled folder; that way your bills and important documents are easily accessible.
Too many bank accounts?
How many bank accounts do you have and how many do you actually need and use regularly? If you have more than two bank accounts, you might consider closing down the ones you don’t really use unless the accounts play very specific roles.
Deal with bills promptly
If you receive a new bill, deal with it promptly. If you subscribe to internet banking, it will be easy to automate some of your regular utility bill payments. Otherwise write a cheque and send it off immediately. Do not procrastinate; start this task and finish it straightaway so that it takes only a few minutes of your time.
Shred!
Many Nigerians find themselves victims of fraud and identity theft, in which personal documents are stolen and the data is used fraudulently. Your financial information is very personal and it is essential that you maintain confidentiality to protect yourself from fraud. When your rubbish is picked up, you don’t know exactly where it ends up. Don’t just carelessly discard old financial statements; all those old bills, bank statements can become prime targets for thieves. Consider buying a shredder so that you can immediately shred any sensitive documents that you no longer need; this way you can minimise the chances of the wrong person getting at the information.
These are just suggestions; it is important to devise a system that works for you, otherwise you will not follow it through. Often we don’t appreciate the importance of keeping our finances organised until we are faced with a major financial decision such as buying a home, applying for a car loan or trying to claim on our insurance policy. Using technology to organise your finances will make things even quicker and easier.

Jaguar to add 800 new UK jobs


Premium carmaker Jaguar Land Rover plans to create 800 new jobs at its Solihull factory in central England due to demand in China, Russia and the United States, a person familiar with the mattertold Reuters on Sunday.
JLR, owned by India’s Tata Motors , said earlier this month that its outlook for 2013 was positive after UK vehicle sales rose almost 20 percent in 2012.
The source said confirmation of the new jobs could come later on Sunday. Last week, Japanese carmaker Honda cut around 800 jobs at its plant near Swindon due to falling demand for its vehicles across mainland Europe.

Dangote Crashes Sugar Prices By 25%


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Dangote Sugar Refinery Plc (DSR) has announced a 25 per cent reduction in the price of its product in response to the price of sugar at the International Commodity market.
According to the company, with the new price regime, Dangote has crashed the price of its 50kg bag from N8, 900 to N6, 660.
Managing Director of the company, Mr Abdullahi Sule attributed the development to the recent reduction in the price of raw sugar at the international market.
The reduction, he said reflects the trends in the international market where the price of raw sugar has dropped from about $0.26 cents to the current $0.19 cents. He said the company has a policy of passing the benefits of price reductions to the customers.
Already, with the price reduction rocking the market and some other sugar refineries alleging that DSR reduced the sugar prices to a level where it makes it difficult for competition to survive, Sule, explained that Nigeria was not a sugar producing nation, hence all raw sugar that are refined locally are imported from Brazil by all industry players and that there was nothing to hide.
The DSR chief executive explained that raw sugar is traded openly on the International Commodities Market with the prices available for all and sundry to see and/or verify.

Janet Jackson To Receive $500m If She Stays Married For At Least 5years


According to new reports Janet Jackson, 46, stands to receive $500 million if she stays married to her billionaire fiance, Wissam Al Manna, 37, for a minimum of five years.
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Janet did not put off her New Year’s Eve wedding because of cold feet but because of cold cash, a friend has revealed.
The singer was due to marry Arab multi-billionaire Wissam Al Mana but their lawyers could not organize the prenuptial agreement in time.
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Twice-married Janet has amassed a fortune of £93.5million from 10 hit albums and six major tours while Wissam is one of the richest investors in the Middle East where he represents such fashion and style icons as Hermes and Sonia Rykiel.
He is also a major shareholder in Saks Fifth Avenue stores in Dubai, Doha, Bahrain and Kuwait.
“Janet will be marrying into the sort of wealth not even her brother Michael managed to amass during his lifetime of success,” said her friend. “She’s looking forward to a fairytale life with Wissam.”
Should the fairytale turn sour then the agreement still being worked on is reported to guarantee Janet, 46, a “kiss-off” of half-a-billion dollars (around £312.14million) if they divorce after a minimum of five years.
Culled From NAIJNEWS